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Rental car companies seem to be competing with the airline industry on charging for this and that. Adding those subtle things that you might not see at first, if ever.
Here is an offering from msnbc.com that could help you the next time you need to rent a car. The author is fair, giving the rental car companies their due, but he’s also got some helpful ideas on how to keep them from pulling a fast one on you.
Stay smart guys!
Just a couple of quick reminders/encouragers for you today, from a couple of unique, seemingly random sources, that perhaps you don’t read about every day. I know I don’t.
Enjoy. Be inspired to do something to build your marriage today!
ONE – 2008 US Census: One quarter of divorces that took place in previous year were among those married 20 years or longer. So whatever stage your marriage is in, don’t let it fade. If you’ve been married a short time or a long time, keep working on it. Keep flirting with each other. Keep teasing each other. Have fun with it. Keep making your sex life better and better. Give it attention. Don’t have an (Al and Tipper) GORE-ing marriage!
Actually I pray for the Gore marriage. All the press I read about them has them already divorced when the only official word I’ve heard from them is that they are separating. I’ve met Al two different times. One on one he seems like a nice gentleman. Just to show you that anyone’s marriage can drift and drifting can lead to separation and sometimes worse.
TWO – “There is no more ‘charming relationship’ than a good marriage.” Martin Luther
Make your marriage attractive today – to your mate and yourself. Not by changing your spouse, but by being the best spouse you can be.
Just for today. Then, day by day.
I boast completely in the Lord but I am so proud of our church. Tonight was the ordination of 3 men and the licensing of another from Team Bangkok as it sets its sights for Thailand. The Lord allowed me to witness tonight one of the most inspirational examinations of an ordination council I’ve ever experienced. The theological and spiritual maturity of this crew was incredible. Kyle Tanner, Steve Van Dyke, and Brandon Hathcock were amazing in their humility, yet wisdom.
When I was a kid in the ministry (and that was a loooong time ago!) a fellow, older staff member used to pray over me quite frequently that God would grant me “wisdom beyond my years”. I think to an extent God granted that persistent prayer. But compared to how these guys handled themselves tonight in the face of some tough theological questions, I don’t think I would have measured up.They all seem to have wisdom well beyond their years.
Noticed that I only mentioned 3 of the 4 men. The other is Seth Hood. Now I am proud of Seth for sure, having seen his journey for 15+ years now. I have seen how he has grown in the faith and that growth is significant. And I want him recognized for sure. But I’ll let his dad – his proud dad and our Senior Pastor – tell you about how Seth handled himself tonight.
I told Pat in front of the council tonight that he ought to be proud as a dad. He quickly assured me that he was. It wasn’t hard to detect. Pat beamed with a pride and thanks to God for all of them, but of course especially for Seth. You can read his comments at Pat’s blog.
A proud moment indeed for LifePoint. But again we boast only in the Lord, of course. How good He has been to our church. The future of LifePoint as it prepares to launch abroad is exciting and needs our support.
Please join me in praying for and in giving to the Team Bangkok cause as the Lord leads you.
One more item on Team Bangkok: At LifePoint Church, (Smyrna and Stewart Creek campuses) we will commission this super team Sunday morning, June 6. How exciting and fitting that we show our support, love and prayers for this team as they head to another land to serve our Lord and be establish the LifePoint Bangkok campus.
You have read how excited I am about them. (See last week’s posting.) I encourage you to be there to offer your encouragement to them this Sunday.
A commissioning is like a corporate blessing on an individual, couple or group. This will be precisely what we will do Sunday. Our blessing will essentially say, “1) We believe what you are doing is right; 2) we pledge to pray for you; 3) we promise to support you in other ways in addition to praying; and 4) we affirm you for risking, sacrificing and plunging head on into what and where you feel God is calling you.”
Be there Sunday … to be a blessing to Team Bangkok and for a blessing of your own.
Let’s talk about Team Bangkok. (We’ll cover Team Belgium later.) Selma and I recently visited Team Bangkok in Atlanta. In prep for their adventures in Thailand, they have been in Atlanta for the last FIVE MONTHS ministering like crazy to people of almost every ethnic shape, size and color. They have also been in a “grueling” schedule of school, focusing on missiology and theology. Reading and reporting on two books per week – that’s right – PER WEEK. Setting up a home and ministry in a land and culture thousands of miles from here ought to be cake compared to the school schedule they have endured in Atlanta.
One major observation I can make about everyone on this team: they have grown spiritually. They are close to the Lord, so pray for them – especially now. I remember in seminary discovering that when God calls you into a special ministry relationship with Him, the enemy works overtime to discourage you, lying to you, tempting you along with many other things he’s been doing for several millennia. Pray for their protection, for their marriages, that they will guard their hearts and stay pure, inside their marriage or in their singleness.
I am proud and grateful to Team Bangkok. No, they haven’t yet arrived at their destination, but spend a few moments with them and you catch their commitment. They actually cannot wait to get on the field. Isn’t that the way it should be? Oh that more people loved their jobs and were as passionate about the work they do.
Team Bangkok is coming home this weekend. “Home”, that is, here in Smyrna. In a sense they are really just passing through. Their sights and hearts are set for another land. If you see any of them at LifePoint this Sunday please offer them encouragement. Ask how they are doing and how specifically you can pray for them. We are their home church and they need to know we are with them. In the midst of your busy Sunday, ask God to make you aware of Team Bangkok this weekend and to find a way to love on them.
They are leaving for Thailand soon so let’s make the most of the time we have with them. A special group indeed and I am very proud of all of them already.
Here is Team Bangkok:
Bret and Susie Cox
Brandon and Crystal Hathcock
Steve and Tiffany Van Dyke
Kyle Tanner
Seth Hood
Brett and Beth Clark
Julia Biasi
I have emails if you’d like to connect with them that way. Just let me know.
Check out the article from Reuters on the likeliest and least likely cities and states couples divorce.
http://www.reuters.com/article/idUSTRE64H5Q720100518
Keep in mind that you can have a happy marriage wherever you live. Work on it. Feed it. Continue to date. Look at your mate’s needs more than your own. Keep God in the mix, and watch your marriage grow regardless of the location of your residence.
Tonight …
Phil and Natalie are leading the last session in our series focusing on key elements that go into making a healthy marriage. It’s been a good, well-attended series with a great group. It is easier to teach when the group you are addressing is responsive and this one has not disappointed us.
Thanks for you support in this Wednesday night series. It has been a joy to be with you. I have one more request of you: if you have been a regular for this series, please come tonight and support Phil and Natalie Wilson as they share on the essential of Cultivate Communication.
Small Miracle in Miami …
I spoke Monday of this week to a group of Spanish-speaking book distributors and book sellers at a hotel in Miami on The Parent Adventure. After the talk, the leader’s assistant wanted to record me for about a minute or so to put it on LifeWay Espanol’s Facebook page. We were in a huge hall away from all the noise so the recording would be clear. As we finished we walked by a couple of men not associated with the conference. One has overheard me talking about the chapter on “Letting Go”. He called out to me what I meant by that concept and said that he had a two-year-old. He asked for my name and the name of our book.
1) He asked if it was on Kindle. 2) I said yes. 3) He whipped out his iPad and ordered it right there as we talked.
I asked for his response after he read it and he said he would email me.
Small miracle? Perhaps, but it was indeed a clear reminder that if God wants a book sold, or whatever he wants done, it will be done. When a perfect stranger stops me and asks to buy my book that he’s never heard of before, it reinforced my belief in the sovereignty of our Lord.
Wednesday night …
May 5 – that’s right, baby – CINCO DE MAYO! – we’ll be covering one of the most comprehensive concepts in marriage: the phenomenon of trust.
Someone once said, aptly so, that trust is the currency of all relationships. Truer words couldn’t be spoken! It is that valuable in any relationship, especially marriage.
Come and see why this essential is so special, so precious that we need to do anything to hold on to it, to keep it in our marriages. It is one of our favorite topics of marriage enrichment because it affects every part of this marriage thing.
It is trust and it is special. And if you have it in your marriage, it needs to be treasured.
See you for essential number FIVE of SIX as we open up this treasure.
One More Thought …
If you’ve been keeping up with the flood stories and LifePoint, you ought to be as proud as I am of our church. It is like this part of the body of Christ is just waiting to do ministry. Just like Jesus was as He went from town to town. How can I help? What can I do? Wow, the attitude and spirit of our people is really something else, and that Something Else is Christ Himself.
I am also proud of our staff for providing communication of what opportunities to ministries are available. Still wanting to help? Check our LifePoint website for info.
Thank-you, LifePoint, for being Jesus to a needy community during these days. You are the Body of Christ.
The most noted authority on step family dynamics that I know is Ron Deal. He has a ministry called Successful Step Families. Here is a brief article from Ron, published by Focus on the Family, that talks about step families and their effects on marriage. I hope it does you good.
http://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/marriage_challenges/remarriage_and_blended_families.aspx
Remember, if you are not in a step family but know someone who is (and who DOESN’T) you can forward this on to them. Tell them about this blog, but especially about the article and Ron’s ministry.
Here Ron’s word very clearly: step families are DOABLE! You can do this and do this effectively!
Hey Guys,
Join us Wednesday night, April 28, as we focus on another essential of a healthy marriage. We call this one Celebrate Sex.
If you have seen my Facebook home page it has a quote from Christopher and Rachel McCluskey’s book, When Two Become One. It says …
“A married couple fostering a healthy sex life is like pouring super glue all over their relationship. ”
WOW! That about says it, plain and simple! It’s one of my all-time favorite quotes. What imagery! Want your marriage to become stronger? To bond more? To be more secure? Look at your improving sex life. That’s right. Your sex life. It’s a barometer, a ‘leading indicator’ of how the rest of your relationship is going.
‘How do we make our sex better’, you ask?
1) Take a look at When Two Become One.
2) Read Sheet Music by Kevin Leman.
3) Come to the Six Essentials of a Healthy Marriage Wednesday night! 6:30PM in the auditorium of the LifePoint Smyrna campus.
Hope to see you there. Like every session on sex Selma and I teach, we’ll have fun with it for sure!
